This is a good one, which I think ALL men should have a read. (copied from FB friend's link)
"Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea.... She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).
Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you
Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.
Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.
Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.
Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.
Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.
Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay
Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)
Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass
Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway
Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both
Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised concerning the woman:
• Treat the women well.
This post was written by a man. May Allah bless his marriage life for reminding other men to be what they are supposed to be.
Ehem..ehem..as you can see, the big fonts are reminder to my husband. hehe
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Monday, October 24, 2011
Friday, February 26, 2010
Because you are a girl
Kak Haza’s entry today has really caught my attention. It is exactly how I feel and how much I have been meaning to express. Not that I am ungrateful I came into the world as a girl.
Being a girl, has a lot of advantages.
You get to say you don’t know, because you’re a girl. You get to get away from dealing with technical or heavy stuff because you’re a girl and you are meant to be weaker than men.
Girls are expected to have less intelligence than men. But if you are a genius, you get the bonus point. Men are expected to be smart, but if they are not, they don’t worth anything.
As a girl you get to be moody and get away with it because you are known to have suffered from PMS. When a man gets moody, he will be labeled ‘a jerk’.
You get to wear beautiful things like diamonds and tiaras. You can wear pink.
As a girl, if you have good driving skill, you will be called and F1 driver, but if you drive injudiciously, you will just be labeled as one of those “women drivers”, which is not bad I think, because you ARE a woman. Unlike men, if they drive skillfully, nothing great about that, because they are EXPECTED to. But if they drive hastily, they will be labeled as “drive macam POMPUAN!!” which is not nice la, because they are being associated to a different gender.
As a girl, you can talk a lot and looking cute. You can be kelam kabut, careless, forgetful, but still being loved.
Banyak lagi you can do and get away as a girl. And the best thing is, you get to be a mother.
BUT, all the above is only true in fairy tales. If you EVER able to find yourself a prince charming that understands the different nature of a man and a woman. The prince that takes the responsibility to make you happy as a girl. That gives everything just to see you smile. That respects you as a girl and not just treat you like someone who compliments him. That knows how to keep quiet and show respect when his girl is nagging, angry or moody.
In real life, men just live their life in their own convenient way. They harass, they abuse as they like just to satisfy their lust. They just don’t care about anything, and don’t even bother to pick a wedding date. They can just get moody and cranky whenever they are hungry or when the weather does not co-operate. They expect their ladies to just be there for them every time, cater for their needs, and accept their mood swings. So ‘male chauvinist’, I know. They can make mistakes, and say sorry whenever they like and if their ladies, don’t accept it, they get angry for not being forgiven. So typical, right?
If I were a boy, I will be proud of myself to be able to make my girl happy. I would hold on to the principle “I am not a real man if I can’t make my wife happy”.
Beyonce says:
If I were a boy
I thinkI could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
I swear I can be a better man
Being a girl, has a lot of advantages.
You get to say you don’t know, because you’re a girl. You get to get away from dealing with technical or heavy stuff because you’re a girl and you are meant to be weaker than men.
Girls are expected to have less intelligence than men. But if you are a genius, you get the bonus point. Men are expected to be smart, but if they are not, they don’t worth anything.
As a girl you get to be moody and get away with it because you are known to have suffered from PMS. When a man gets moody, he will be labeled ‘a jerk’.
You get to wear beautiful things like diamonds and tiaras. You can wear pink.
As a girl, if you have good driving skill, you will be called and F1 driver, but if you drive injudiciously, you will just be labeled as one of those “women drivers”, which is not bad I think, because you ARE a woman. Unlike men, if they drive skillfully, nothing great about that, because they are EXPECTED to. But if they drive hastily, they will be labeled as “drive macam POMPUAN!!” which is not nice la, because they are being associated to a different gender.
As a girl, you can talk a lot and looking cute. You can be kelam kabut, careless, forgetful, but still being loved.
Banyak lagi you can do and get away as a girl. And the best thing is, you get to be a mother.
BUT, all the above is only true in fairy tales. If you EVER able to find yourself a prince charming that understands the different nature of a man and a woman. The prince that takes the responsibility to make you happy as a girl. That gives everything just to see you smile. That respects you as a girl and not just treat you like someone who compliments him. That knows how to keep quiet and show respect when his girl is nagging, angry or moody.
In real life, men just live their life in their own convenient way. They harass, they abuse as they like just to satisfy their lust. They just don’t care about anything, and don’t even bother to pick a wedding date. They can just get moody and cranky whenever they are hungry or when the weather does not co-operate. They expect their ladies to just be there for them every time, cater for their needs, and accept their mood swings. So ‘male chauvinist’, I know. They can make mistakes, and say sorry whenever they like and if their ladies, don’t accept it, they get angry for not being forgiven. So typical, right?
If I were a boy, I will be proud of myself to be able to make my girl happy. I would hold on to the principle “I am not a real man if I can’t make my wife happy”.
Beyonce says:
If I were a boy
I thinkI could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
I swear I can be a better man
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Women
Curi from a friend's facebook status, that i thought might give a big slap to the men.
Whatever u give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give u a baby. Give her a house, she will give u a home. Give her groceries, she will give u a meal. Give her a smile n she will give u her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if u give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit. - T.A.N
I love this quote very much. I think it's so true. Women are always the one giving in, thinking "give him one more chance, i know he will change". Always saying "but he promised to change, and he will never repeat. So i am giving in".
Tapi men, always do or say things without thinking and forever saying "sorry, tak buat lagi, i promise". And we always wonder which part of the sentence that they don't understand, and they keep on doing the same mistake. They think, "takper, i'll buy her chocolate, and she'll smile at me again" always taking advantage knowing that women are easily swept away.
But what men don't realise is that women do have thier pride. They are always giving in not because they are stupid or weak, but only because they love you. But there'll come a time that love will no longer be your saviour. That's the time when she will regain her strength. That's the time when she has amassed the tons of shit to be thrown at your craps.
Whatever u give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give u a baby. Give her a house, she will give u a home. Give her groceries, she will give u a meal. Give her a smile n she will give u her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if u give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit. - T.A.N
I love this quote very much. I think it's so true. Women are always the one giving in, thinking "give him one more chance, i know he will change". Always saying "but he promised to change, and he will never repeat. So i am giving in".
Tapi men, always do or say things without thinking and forever saying "sorry, tak buat lagi, i promise". And we always wonder which part of the sentence that they don't understand, and they keep on doing the same mistake. They think, "takper, i'll buy her chocolate, and she'll smile at me again" always taking advantage knowing that women are easily swept away.
But what men don't realise is that women do have thier pride. They are always giving in not because they are stupid or weak, but only because they love you. But there'll come a time that love will no longer be your saviour. That's the time when she will regain her strength. That's the time when she has amassed the tons of shit to be thrown at your craps.
Friday, September 25, 2009
Ambition
Funny that she didn’t shed a tear.
Funny that she thought it all sounded normal to her.
After all these years, she was the one who built him up.
Gave him the desire to continue with life.
Provided shelter when it rains.
Spread her wings when the world turns its back against him.
She recollected.
She is just a simple girl from a small family, growing up in a big town. She was not a bright student, but she sure has clear ambition. She always wanted to start her life big. She wanted to have big family, she has always wanted to obtain big qualification, possess big position, and hold a big career path. She has always wanted to study abroad, get married to an engineer or a lawyer and work as professionals.
She fantasizes living in a hectic life in a big city like London and speak French fluently. She dreams of having a big home in Kensington, hire a chauffeur to drive her kids to school, have a big holiday mansion in Spain, and be someone prominent in the society she lives in.
But life is not perfect. Nothing is perfect.
Disregarding her dreams, but holding on to her ambition..
She could live without the mansion in Spain, without a chauffeur to drive her kids to school, and she could just live in a small 2-bedroom home in Shah Alam, settles with only Malay and English as her daily language, living in the chaotic and unruly Kuala Lumpur.
But she cannot just work as clerk and get married to an office boy and just be thankful that she is still earning. She had set that goal, and she will live every minute of her life en route for the ambition. She will get up if she fails; she will fight, and will not be defeated. She can forgo her beautiful dreams, but not her ambitions.
She will not be overpowered. Not even by love.
She realized now that she can’t control the surroundings to accommodate for her goal. She has got to go out and look for the right surroundings for the same goal.
Funny that she thought it all sounded normal to her.
After all these years, she was the one who built him up.
Gave him the desire to continue with life.
Provided shelter when it rains.
Spread her wings when the world turns its back against him.
She recollected.
She is just a simple girl from a small family, growing up in a big town. She was not a bright student, but she sure has clear ambition. She always wanted to start her life big. She wanted to have big family, she has always wanted to obtain big qualification, possess big position, and hold a big career path. She has always wanted to study abroad, get married to an engineer or a lawyer and work as professionals.
She fantasizes living in a hectic life in a big city like London and speak French fluently. She dreams of having a big home in Kensington, hire a chauffeur to drive her kids to school, have a big holiday mansion in Spain, and be someone prominent in the society she lives in.
But life is not perfect. Nothing is perfect.
Disregarding her dreams, but holding on to her ambition..
She could live without the mansion in Spain, without a chauffeur to drive her kids to school, and she could just live in a small 2-bedroom home in Shah Alam, settles with only Malay and English as her daily language, living in the chaotic and unruly Kuala Lumpur.
But she cannot just work as clerk and get married to an office boy and just be thankful that she is still earning. She had set that goal, and she will live every minute of her life en route for the ambition. She will get up if she fails; she will fight, and will not be defeated. She can forgo her beautiful dreams, but not her ambitions.
She will not be overpowered. Not even by love.
She realized now that she can’t control the surroundings to accommodate for her goal. She has got to go out and look for the right surroundings for the same goal.
Friday, September 4, 2009
Lelaki-lelaki
Lelaki A:
A month before his wedding, told his fiancé “I am gonna call off the wedding. I got pay cut, I cannot afford and I don’t think I am ready to get married.”
Two months after that, he married his office slut.
Lelaki B:
Has been very sweet and understanding towards his girlfriend. He has never complaint although his girlfriend is always occupied with work. Never talked about marriage.
Only to be caught has been having affair with his best friend’s wife.
Lelaki C:
Left his girlfriend of 4 years for another girl. Back to his first girlfriend after finding out how slut the second girl is. Married her and had a son together.
One year after the marriage, he cheated on her again.
Lelaki D:
Told her muslim girlfriend that he will never convert to Islam. His girlfriend finally realized that the relationship will not go anywhere. When she decided to leave, he didn’t stop her.
A year later, he married another muslim girl.
We don’t expect you to be loyal to one girl.
But we at least want you to be honest.
My boss always say to us “Don’t know, say don’t know. Don’t act like you know” (every time we try to answer his questions that are so obvious we don’t know the answer to).
So my recommendation to the guys, “Don’t like, say don’t like. Don’t cheat and give stupid reason to break up".
A month before his wedding, told his fiancé “I am gonna call off the wedding. I got pay cut, I cannot afford and I don’t think I am ready to get married.”
Two months after that, he married his office slut.
Lelaki B:
Has been very sweet and understanding towards his girlfriend. He has never complaint although his girlfriend is always occupied with work. Never talked about marriage.
Only to be caught has been having affair with his best friend’s wife.
Lelaki C:
Left his girlfriend of 4 years for another girl. Back to his first girlfriend after finding out how slut the second girl is. Married her and had a son together.
One year after the marriage, he cheated on her again.
Lelaki D:
Told her muslim girlfriend that he will never convert to Islam. His girlfriend finally realized that the relationship will not go anywhere. When she decided to leave, he didn’t stop her.
A year later, he married another muslim girl.
We don’t expect you to be loyal to one girl.
But we at least want you to be honest.
My boss always say to us “Don’t know, say don’t know. Don’t act like you know” (every time we try to answer his questions that are so obvious we don’t know the answer to).
So my recommendation to the guys, “Don’t like, say don’t like. Don’t cheat and give stupid reason to break up".
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Mars & Venus
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
This is acknowledged for very good reasons.
This is acknowledged for very good reasons.
To define women: (taken from http://www.venus-vs-mars.com/)
*Women are far more complex then men. Their needs and desires are numerous, but fluctuate more as well. Better listening skills is always needed: Men need to be more interactive, to be more empathetic and more connective with their communication skill -i.e. Much More Sensitivity.
*Women are far more complex then men. Their needs and desires are numerous, but fluctuate more as well. Better listening skills is always needed: Men need to be more interactive, to be more empathetic and more connective with their communication skill -i.e. Much More Sensitivity.
*Women having their "purposed petty" problems taken seriously. Men must exercise higher social skills during discussions with their mate on difficulties (and rarely help in solving, nor to speak, and to mostly listen, holding and or cuddling, tender touching -brushing the hair with the fingers, but not sex motivated).
*More regular discussion intervals and more open communications needed: Men obviously need to have more attentiveness and interest in their mate's issues, both on facts presented, her feeling levels being expressed, and to remember these things and when they happen.
*Women have a need for attention -vers- having sex: Men need to make them feel nourish of their relationship, the feeling that she's a love partner, and not just a love object or boy sex tool.
*Women need appreciation: Men need to give thanks and gratitude for all she has done.
*Women have the need for the real interest in her life: Men should have the curiosity about her day, her beliefs, and her dreams.
*Women enjoy the feeling of being a part of her man's life: Men should be sharing goals and values with her, talking over family economics, business ventures, and planning family gathers throughout the year, and recreation activities, etc.
*Women love to have little experiences of social and emotional remembrance shared in private and in public: Men need to learn writing little notes, giving little gifts, and making special plans that say, "I love you."
*Her partner's involvement in things she enjoys: willingness to indulge, to share ideas, to learn with, to participate in her favorite pleasures.
*Understanding: trying to comprehend using intuition and logic, to listen.
*Closeness: holding her in his arms, touching her gently when spoken to, or being spoken to, giving her the presence of protecting her.
*Tenderness: Verbalize the use of kind words, expressions, sensitive tones, and to listen.
*Acceptance of who she is as she is: permission to be imperfect, affirmation of her appearance, go shopping with her, to learn and appreciate her fashion tastes, her character, and achievements.
-We want Mr. Right to accept us and love us for who we really are and to treat us with respect and honor.
Jarang sekali lelaki akan bersikap seperti yang kita idamkan. They are always the opposite.
Tetapi kalau lelaki belajar untuk hidup cara the Venus style seperti di atas, your partner will be the happiest woman alive.
Orang tanya, "kenapa lelaki jer kene give in and not women?"
Perempuan dijadikan dari tulang rusuk Nabi Adam, sesungguhnya perempuan tu lemah in the inside walaupon kadang-kadang nampak ganas on the outside.
A chinese guy, Mr N once said to me, "Girls are made to be 'sayang-sayang'ed. And guys like me are made to love them".
Thursday, June 25, 2009
If a man wants you
Posted by a friend of mine in facebook notes. I kinda like it and I think they are very true.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourselfa year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consistsof two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
For the past few weeks or so I have been exposed with stories of my girlfriends on relationships.
Stuck in a relationship that is no where near love. Only pity has been saving the relationship.
The guy that has been holding you near is not really the Mr Right you’ve been looking for.
He’s nice and he’s all that, but he’s just not the one.
You don’t feel the chemistry.
You don’t feel the connection.
But you can’t leave him because he’s too nice.
And you don’t want to hurt him.
So you stay, thinking that you can somehow work this out.
Because you are afraid that no one will ever love you the way he does.
I had once been in this kind of relationship.
I was too stupid, thinking that I could try to love him.
I never did.
When I finally made the decision to leave, I realized I had wasted my good 4 years stuck in a relationship that I knew was not ever going to go anywhere.
Thanks to someone who had saved me from this nightmare.
Who made me realized what falling in love could possibly mean.
We were accidentally in love.
We thought that it was love, but that relationship was a bridge for us to get to where we are today.
To find the true love. And now I am happier than I have ever did.
So girlfriends, don’t ever think that there’s no other person in this world for you. Always believe that, everybody is made for someone.
You will not find it, if you let yourself stuck in a relationship that is just not meant to be.
My mother always says “Find a man that loves you, not the one that you love, because women can learn to love”.
But learning to love someone is not easy. It applies to the olden days when marriage was an arrangement.
At the present time, women with profession and own aspiration will look for love that could satisfies them.
Quoting from a friend’s theory:
“I still however believe that I must only invest in a shoe that fits me perfectly and comfortably. If the shoe feels even slightly uncomfortable, no harm in trying other shoes until you have no doubt that the shoe is meant for you! Imagine that you have to walk with that shoe for a long distance, would you really want to settle for a shoe that is an inch smaller?”
Another friend quoted:
“I feel comfortable when I walk alone.. but when I see more gorgeous shoes or more expensive ones or more comfy shoes.. I start to think the shoe I’m wearing isn’t so comfortable after all. However, the shoe I’m wearing is like stuck to my foot! Sometimes I love them, sometimes they hurt me”.
Haih, this is a never ending issue.
You can have someone that’s ok, but you can’t settle with him, because he’s not your Mr Right, so you go and look for others. Or you can just settle with him, and learn to love him; after all, nobody is perfect!
Just follow your instinct but have some values and follow the love rule.
Never settle with a guy if:
a) He hits you and emotionally abuse you and your self esteem
b) He cheats on you
c) He is obsessive and excessively jealous than ordinary boyfriends
d) He lies and live off your money
Girls, the ball is in your court!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourselfa year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consistsof two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
For the past few weeks or so I have been exposed with stories of my girlfriends on relationships.
Stuck in a relationship that is no where near love. Only pity has been saving the relationship.
The guy that has been holding you near is not really the Mr Right you’ve been looking for.
He’s nice and he’s all that, but he’s just not the one.
You don’t feel the chemistry.
You don’t feel the connection.
But you can’t leave him because he’s too nice.
And you don’t want to hurt him.
So you stay, thinking that you can somehow work this out.
Because you are afraid that no one will ever love you the way he does.
I had once been in this kind of relationship.
I was too stupid, thinking that I could try to love him.
I never did.
When I finally made the decision to leave, I realized I had wasted my good 4 years stuck in a relationship that I knew was not ever going to go anywhere.
Thanks to someone who had saved me from this nightmare.
Who made me realized what falling in love could possibly mean.
We were accidentally in love.
We thought that it was love, but that relationship was a bridge for us to get to where we are today.
To find the true love. And now I am happier than I have ever did.
So girlfriends, don’t ever think that there’s no other person in this world for you. Always believe that, everybody is made for someone.
You will not find it, if you let yourself stuck in a relationship that is just not meant to be.
My mother always says “Find a man that loves you, not the one that you love, because women can learn to love”.
But learning to love someone is not easy. It applies to the olden days when marriage was an arrangement.
At the present time, women with profession and own aspiration will look for love that could satisfies them.
Quoting from a friend’s theory:
“I still however believe that I must only invest in a shoe that fits me perfectly and comfortably. If the shoe feels even slightly uncomfortable, no harm in trying other shoes until you have no doubt that the shoe is meant for you! Imagine that you have to walk with that shoe for a long distance, would you really want to settle for a shoe that is an inch smaller?”
Another friend quoted:
“I feel comfortable when I walk alone.. but when I see more gorgeous shoes or more expensive ones or more comfy shoes.. I start to think the shoe I’m wearing isn’t so comfortable after all. However, the shoe I’m wearing is like stuck to my foot! Sometimes I love them, sometimes they hurt me”.
Haih, this is a never ending issue.
You can have someone that’s ok, but you can’t settle with him, because he’s not your Mr Right, so you go and look for others. Or you can just settle with him, and learn to love him; after all, nobody is perfect!
Just follow your instinct but have some values and follow the love rule.
Never settle with a guy if:
a) He hits you and emotionally abuse you and your self esteem
b) He cheats on you
c) He is obsessive and excessively jealous than ordinary boyfriends
d) He lies and live off your money
Girls, the ball is in your court!
Saturday, March 22, 2008
The recipe of love
Author: Babydoll
I know this little recipe,Which isn't hard to make.Once you mix the contents,This recipe you don't bake.
Two cups of flattery,Thats carefully concealed.Never allow the mixture,To get clogged or congealed.
One cup of kindness,A bowl of conversation.One cup of understanding,Mixed with consideration.
A large cup of faithfulness,Not given all at one time.Spread this out evenly and,The mixture will be just fine.
One cup of pure courtesy,And a dash of human kindness.Make sure it's all in proportion,For a blend that is the finest.
At this point you should add,Two tablespoons of love salt.And one cup of blindness,To erase the others faults.
Add a large pinch of praise,A cup of pure extract of trust.Now to get this mixture right,All of the above is a must.
Add a very small pinch of in lawsA VERY VERY small pinch indeed.Now blend together in your bowl,Remember to add one loving seed.
Add one reasonably large dash,Of generous consideration.Stir well and blend, Now add,A very large pinch of admiration.
Two teaspoons of "I'm sorrys",The mixture is now nearing the end.And once you have it just right,You can pass the recipe to your friend.
Now flavour with a large dash,Of memories thats warm and tender.Don't put it in the oven,I said at the start, Remember?.
Stir well and remove speck of jealousy,Criticism, Temper and put downs.I forgot you have to add a few smiles,And at this point remove any frowns.
Sweeten well with generous amounts,Only the finest blend of love.And at the end of this mixing,You'll have what it is you've dreamed of.
Remember and keep this mixture warm,With a steady flame of pure devotion.And at the very end of this mixture,You should have a special magic potion.
Season with lots of warm sweet hugs,And also a pinch of holding hands too.This sweet recipe I have for love,Is being made especially for you.
Dont ever serve with cold shoulder,Or even your best hot tongue.Last but not least for the mixture,Add a love song that needs to be sung.
A good recipe indeed. Relationship is not just about 'liking somebody'. Not about just for the sake of being somebody's partner. It is about love that needs to be added with these ingredients to make it tastier, and relationship would be a magical thing you'd never knew. Is it too much to ask aa boys? Is it too difficult to bake love? :p
I know this little recipe,Which isn't hard to make.Once you mix the contents,This recipe you don't bake.
Two cups of flattery,Thats carefully concealed.Never allow the mixture,To get clogged or congealed.
One cup of kindness,A bowl of conversation.One cup of understanding,Mixed with consideration.
A large cup of faithfulness,Not given all at one time.Spread this out evenly and,The mixture will be just fine.
One cup of pure courtesy,And a dash of human kindness.Make sure it's all in proportion,For a blend that is the finest.
At this point you should add,Two tablespoons of love salt.And one cup of blindness,To erase the others faults.
Add a large pinch of praise,A cup of pure extract of trust.Now to get this mixture right,All of the above is a must.
Add a very small pinch of in lawsA VERY VERY small pinch indeed.Now blend together in your bowl,Remember to add one loving seed.
Add one reasonably large dash,Of generous consideration.Stir well and blend, Now add,A very large pinch of admiration.
Two teaspoons of "I'm sorrys",The mixture is now nearing the end.And once you have it just right,You can pass the recipe to your friend.
Now flavour with a large dash,Of memories thats warm and tender.Don't put it in the oven,I said at the start, Remember?.
Stir well and remove speck of jealousy,Criticism, Temper and put downs.I forgot you have to add a few smiles,And at this point remove any frowns.
Sweeten well with generous amounts,Only the finest blend of love.And at the end of this mixing,You'll have what it is you've dreamed of.
Remember and keep this mixture warm,With a steady flame of pure devotion.And at the very end of this mixture,You should have a special magic potion.
Season with lots of warm sweet hugs,And also a pinch of holding hands too.This sweet recipe I have for love,Is being made especially for you.
Dont ever serve with cold shoulder,Or even your best hot tongue.Last but not least for the mixture,Add a love song that needs to be sung.
A good recipe indeed. Relationship is not just about 'liking somebody'. Not about just for the sake of being somebody's partner. It is about love that needs to be added with these ingredients to make it tastier, and relationship would be a magical thing you'd never knew. Is it too much to ask aa boys? Is it too difficult to bake love? :p
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