Gemuk ke Pregnant?



He: Kenapa perut awak nampak buncit?

 

She: Hello..in case you forgot...I am pregnant!!

 

He: Ye laa tapi kenapa buncit tu kat atas, bukan kat bawah?

 

She: Sebab baru nak masuk second trimester, baby blom turun lagi dah daddy!!!

 

He: Oh...

 

Senangnya nak bagi alasan untuk cover gemuk bila pregnant. :p

 

 

The sacrifice

Tonight may be the last night I am spending time here in JB with my husband. It has been 1 month since I left Ernst & Young.

And it has been 1 month worth of thinking what am I going to do with my life. Am I going to be a housewife? Continue to find job? And where shall I start my new job?

For 1 month I have been living the life of a housewife. I cooked, I washed the clothes (machine and handwash), cleaned the kitchen and the house, ironed the clothes and there were other little things I did as a housewife.

I was ecstatic in the beginning (and still are whenever I have the opportunity to do those things), doing things for your husband is something very fulfilling as a wife. Seeing my husband happy, makes me happy.

He comes back from work, dinner is served on the table, after eating, I let him leave the dishes unwashed so he could watch TV. I prepare hot tea for him after dinner, and at night, when he is too lazy to wash up, I wipe his face with my facial wipes, and sometimes when he is lazy to shower but his body becomes sticky because of sweat, I wipe his body using wet towel, so he could sleep comfortably.

But I know I was born a career woman. I can't just sit back at home watching TV during the day while other people working so hard to gain physical and mental input. I cant let my brain just die watching Desperate Housewives.

Not yet.

I feel that I am still young that I still have so much to earn and so much more to give. I cant stop my career now. I have to climb up that career ladder and reach my goal in life. And I believe it is a satisfaction as a person as well as a wife who can help to build the family together with her husband.

Now, I am not even halfway there.

My line of work do not give room for opportunities in JB.  And no, I dont want to work in Singapore, because this much of contribution I can give, I'd rather give it to my own people, to my own economy, to my own country.

And at this very moment I am so thankful to my husband for being such an understanding person by letting me work in KL. He understands my passion and never even once he thinks I am being selfish.

He said by being separated, both of us can focus on our work and give our best to our job responsibilities and then have quality time with family during weekends, where he would come home from JB. This is such a huge sacrifice that my husband and I are making.

Maybe bila dah ada anak nanti, I can start to think again whether or not to leave my work and take full care of my child. Till then, I will still continue to strive for excellence.

Terima kasih, Cinta.

Yes, I am

1. Emo
2. Careless
3. Tembel
4. Talk a lot/nag all the time
5. Manja (some would call it mengada-ngada)
6. Fat
7. Stupid
8. Super sensitive
9. Critical mind (some would say unsupportive)

But I always believe with the phrase "If you can't take my WORST, You dont deserve my BEST"!

If I have to change to cover the worst, you definitely unable to bring out the best in me.

I believe in this life, we can't get she's-all-that kinda person. It's just close to non-existence.

But please, if you know ANYONE that has all the opposite traits of the above, please please let me know.

I would like to be like her.

Cium

This morning we were on the phone.
Told him that my father invited him for dinner tonight.
He declined because Korea is playing at 7.30 against Argentina.

I said "I hope u change ur minD".

He sounded shocked and terkejut dan tak sangka. He couldn't believe what he heard.

Apa yang pelik sangat dengan soalanku itu?

What he heard was" I hope u cium cium I"

Haha.. Bengong! Gatal gila aku.

At her worst

Girls are unpredictable. Most of the the times, we don't know what we want.
If you can't read what she wants, then you are not meant to be her partner.

Sometimes things are out of control. Nothing you do is right to her eyes.
If you can't handle her at her worst, you don't deserve her at her best.

Sorry

Sorry is just a word.


Sorry has four different letters in it.

Sorry has repeated ‘r’ in the spelling.

Sorry is just another word again.

Sorry sometimes means ‘I wasn’t being myself’

Sorry is a painful word.

Sorry is a difficult promise to commit.

Sorry at other times means ‘I’ll TRY not to do it again’ rather than ‘I will not do it again’.

Sorry is also a feeling.

Sorry is just another expression.

Sorry means nothing to you and me.

orang gila

one of those days

when we think we are in love....sikiit.. :)

we talk on skype,

chat through gmail chat,

send short emails like we are chatting,

checkout each other's facebook,

miss call on mobile phones,

all at one time.

like they are all with different people.

mak saya kata, "orang gila je buat macam tuh".

dia pulak pulak kata, "memang la saya gila, saya gilakan anak anda"

ecececececeh...

Once she fell in love

Time passes slow
Shackle the steps of the journey
Hundreds of stories
Delineate became a dilemma
Doesn’t he understand the feeling?
It is unbreakable

The hours of darkness have cried
The drops wet the heart’s eyes
Trying to stand
On the tip
Of the delicate love
The thing that she’s holding on
Is not something easy to let go

She has gone too far, loving him
And she has given all her heart
But why is it only now
That he questioned her love
She cannot understand
The flaws and the shortcomings
But now it’s too late to be pointing fingers
Because once she fell in love, she will always be in love

A simple decision

Making decisions is part of people’s lives. Whether it is a big or a small one, a difficult or an easy one, a short term or a long term decisions are dealt with different measure. Have you ever woke up in the morning and the first thing in your mind was a decision to be made? Or one morning when you open your eyes, you just had this funny feeling that you have never thought you would have?

I am never a spontaneous person. I have difficulties in making decisions in my life. I find it hard to choose between A or B. Because I know I have always chosen the wrong thing and choosing would mean I am making a mistake. That is one thing that I am always afraid of in life…making a mistake.

Yes, making mistakes will make you wiser and stronger. Experiences will teach you to be a better person so you know what lies along the bad direction for you to choose the right one. But I am afraid of losing, because for me, failure will only weaken the strength and barren the learning phases. At the point you get up from your deep fall, you’ll realize you have lost all the moment in time and there is no way you could turn back.

Being too conscious of making the wrong decisions, I have in fact making constant mistakes in my 25 years of life. Just when I thought I am back on track, I kept on seeing it coming through my way. Then another question reached my satiated head. Upon realizing my mistake, should I respond? But if I do, I might regret, and if I don’t I will suffer. I have been standing stagnant in my life facing one predicament that I have never had an answer to.

But maybe today I have changed my fate in some ways. And it takes only a tiny affair to snap. It may seem unfair on the surface. But accumulation will make it impartial. And I should stand on my own two feet to trust my own gut feeling. Maybe I live and think better if I am 7000 km away from home…